The best thing you can do to prepare yourself for an interview is to think of yourself as being in control of the situation.

You might feel like you have control of what you are saying, but you’re not.

Think about it.

You have no control over what the interviewer will think.

If the interviewer asks a question that is going to take you out of the frame, that is one thing, but if the interviewer is trying to get a story that will make you feel like they know what they are talking about, then you need to be able to answer the question.

When I interviewed with an interviewer, I felt like I was in control.

It was very, very exciting.

You are going to have to learn to deal with the interviewers expectations, which can be quite challenging.

You will learn to find out where they want to take this, and then you have to be ready to answer.

This article is written by Sarah, a PhD candidate in Psychology at the University of Manchester.

She has been interviewing students since she was 16.

Her work focuses on the effects of social desirability on student achievement, attitudes towards gender, and the effects on work-life balance.

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